Of
the necessity and benefit of intercession, considered as
an exercise of universal love. How all orders of men are
to pray and intercede with God for one another. How
naturally such intercession amends and reforms the
hearts of those that use it.
THAT
intercession is a great and necessary part of Christian
devotion, is very evident from Scripture.
The first
followers of Christ seem to support all their love, and to
maintain all their intercourse and correspondence, by
mutual prayers for one another.
St. Paul,
whether he writes to churches or particular persons, shows
his intercession to be perpetual for them, that they are
the constant subject of his prayers.
Thus to
the Philippians, "I thank my God upon every
remembrance of you, always in every prayer of mine for you
all making request with joy." [Phil. i. 3, 4] Here we
see, not only a continual intercession, but performed with
so much gladness, as shows that it was an exercise of love
in which he highly rejoiced.
His
devotion had also the same care for particular persons, as
appears by the following passages: "I thank God, whom
I serve from my forefathers, with a pure conscience, that
without ceasing I have remembrance of thee in my prayers
night and day." [2 Tim. i. 3] How holy an
acquaintance and friendship was this, how worthy of
persons that were raised above the world, and related to
one another, as new members of a kingdom of Heaven!
Apostles
and great saints did not only thus benefit and bless
particular churches, and private persons; but they
themselves also received graces from God by the prayers of
others. Thus saith St. Paul to the Corinthians: "You
also helping together by prayer for us, that for the gift
bestowed upon us by the means of many persons, thanks may
be given by many on our behalf." [2 Cor. i. 11]
This was
the ancient friendship of Christians, uniting and
cementing their hearts, not by worldly considerations, or
human passions, but by the mutual communication of
spiritual blessings, by prayers and thanksgivings to God
for one another.
It was
this holy intercession that raised Christians to such a
state of mutual love, as far exceeded all that had been
praised and admired in human friendship. And when the same
spirit of intercession is again in the world, when
Christianity has the same power over the hearts of people
that it then had, this holy friendship will be again in
fashion, and Christians will be again the wonder of the
world, for that exceeding love which they bear to one
another.
For a
frequent intercession with God, earnestly beseeching him
to forgive the sins of all mankind, to bless them with His
providence, enlighten them with His Spirit, and bring them
to everlasting happiness, is the divinest exercise that
the heart of man can be engaged in.
Be daily,
therefore, on your knees, in a solemn deliberate
performance of this devotion, praying for others in such
forms, with such length, importunity, and earnestness, as
you use for yourself; and you will find all little,
ill-natured passions die away, your heart grow great and
generous, delighting in the common happiness of others, as
you used only to delight in your own.
For he
that daily prays to God, that all men may be happy in
Heaven, takes the likeliest way to make him wish for, and
delight in their happiness on earth. And it is hardly
possible for you to beseech and entreat God to make any
one happy in the highest enjoyments of his glory to all
eternity, and yet be troubled to see him enjoy the much
smaller gifts of God in this short and low state of human
life.
For how
strange and unnatural would it be, to pray to God to grant
health and a longer life to a sick man, and at the same
time to envy him the poor pleasure of agreeable medicines!
Yet this
would be no more strange or unnatural than to pray to God
that your neighbour may enjoy the highest degrees of His
mercy and favour, and yet at the same time envy him the
little credit and figure he hath amongst his
fellow-creatures.
When
therefore you have once habituated your heart to a serious
performance of this holy intercession, you have done a
great deal to render it incapable of spite and envy, and
to make it naturally delight in the happiness of all
mankind.
This is
the natural effect of a general intercession for all
mankind. But the greatest benefits of it are then
received, when it descends to such particular instances as
our state and condition in life more particularly require
of us.
Though we
are to treat all mankind as neighbours and brethren, as
any occasion offers; yet as we can only live in the actual
society of a few, and are by our state and condition more
particularly related to some than others; so when our
intercession is made an exercise of love and care for
those amongst whom our lot is fallen, or who belong to us
in a nearer relation, it then becomes the greatest benefit
to ourselves, and produces its best effects in our own
hearts.
If
therefore you should always change and alter your
intercessions, according as the needs and necessities of
your neighbours or acquaintance seem to require;
beseeching God to deliver them from such or such
particular evils, or to grant them this or that particular
gift, or blessing; such intercessions, besides the great
charity of them, would have a mighty effect upon your own
heart, as disposing you to every other good office, and to
the exercise of every other virtue towards such persons,
as have so often a place in your prayers.
This
would make it pleasant to you to be courteous, civil, and
condescending to all about you; and make you unable to say
or do a rude or hard thing to those, for whom you had used
yourself to be so kind and compassionate in your prayers.
For there
is nothing that makes us love a man so much as praying for
him; and when you can once do this sincerely for any man,
you have fitted your soul for the performance of
everything that is kind and civil towards him. This will
fill your heart with a generosity and tenderness, that
will give you a better and sweeter behaviour than anything
that is called fine breeding and good manners.
By
considering yourself as an advocate with God for your
neighbours and acquaintance, you would never find it hard
to be at peace with them yourself. It would be easy to you
to bear with and forgive those, for whom you particularly
implored the Divine mercy and forgiveness.
Such
prayers as these amongst neighbours and acquaintance,
would unite them to one another in the strongest bonds of
love and tenderness. It would exalt and ennoble their
souls, and teach them to consider one another in a higher
state, as members of a spiritual society, that are created
for the enjoyment of the common blessings of God, and
fellow-heirs of the same future glory.
And by
being thus desirous that every one should have his full
share of the favours of God, they would not only be
content, but glad to see one another happy in the little
enjoyments of this transitory life.
These
would be the natural effects of such an intercession,
amongst people of the same town or neighbourhood, or that
were acquainted with one another's state and condition.
Ouranius[42]
is a holy priest, full of the spirit of the Gospel,
watching, labouring, and praying for a poor country
village. Every soul in it is as dear to him as himself;
and he loves them all, as he loves himself, because he
prays for them all, as often as he prays for himself.
If his
whole life is one continual exercise of great zeal and
labour, hardly ever satisfied with any degrees of care and
watchfulness, it is because he has learned the great value
of souls, by so often appearing before God as an
intercessor for them.
He never
thinks he can love, or do enough for his flock; because he
never considers them in any other view than as so many
persons, that by receiving the gifts and graces of God,
are to become his hope, his joy, and his crown of
rejoicing.
He goes
about his parish, and visits everybody in it; but visits
in the same spirit of piety that he preaches to them: he
visits them to encourage their virtues, to assist them
with his advice and counsel, to discover their manner of
life, and to know the state of their souls, that he may
intercede with God for them, according to their particular
necessities.
When
Ouranius first entered into holy orders, he had a
haughtiness in his temper, a great contempt and disregard
for all foolish and unreasonable people; but he has prayed
away this spirit, and has now the greatest tenderness for
the most obstinate sinners; because he is always hoping,
that God will, sooner or later, hear those prayers that he
makes for their repentance.
The
rudeness, ill-nature, or perverse behaviour of any of his
flock, used at first to betray him into impatience; but it
now raises no other passion in him, than a desire of being
upon his knees in prayer to God for them. Thus have his
prayers for others altered and amended the state of his
own heart.
It would
strangely delight you to see with what spirit he
converses, with what tenderness he reproves, with what
affection he exhorts, and with what vigour he preaches;
and it is all owing to this, because he reproves, exhorts,
and preaches to those for whom he first prays to God.
This
devotion softens his heart, enlightens his mind, sweetens
his temper, and makes everything that comes from him,
instructive, amiable, and affecting.
At his
first coming to his little village, it was as disagreeable
to him as a prison, and every day seemed too tedious to be
endured in so retired a place. He thought his parish was
too full of poor and mean people, that were none of them
fit for the conversation of a gentleman.
This put
him upon a close application to his studies. He kept much
at home, writ notes upon Homer and Plautus, and sometimes
thought it hard to be called to pray by any poor body,
when he was just in the midst of one of Homer's battles.
This was
his polite, or I may rather say, poor, ignorant turn of
mind, before devotion had got the government of his heart.
But now
his days are so far from being tedious, or his parish too
great a retirement, that he now only wants more time to do
that variety of good, which his soul thirsts after. The
solitude of his little parish is become matter of great
comfort to him, because he hopes that God has placed him
and his flock there, to make it their way to Heaven.
He can
now not only converse with, but gladly attend and wait
upon the poorest kind of people. He is now daily watching
over the weak and infirm, humbling himself to perverse,
rude, ignorant people, wherever he can find them; and is
so far from desiring to be considered as a gentleman, that
he desires to be used as the servant of all; and in the
spirit of his Lord and Master girds himself, and is glad
to kneel down and wash any of their feet.
He now
thinks the poorest creature in his parish good enough, and
great enough, to deserve the humblest attendances, the
kindest friendships, the tenderest offices, he can
possibly show them.
He is so
far now from wanting agreeable company, that he thinks
there is no better conversation in the world, than to be
talking with poor and mean people about the kingdom of
Heaven.
All these
noble thoughts and Divine sentiments are the effects of
his great devotion; he presents every one so often before
God in his prayers, that he never thinks he can esteem,
reverence, or serve those enough, for whom he implores so
many mercies from God.
Ouranius
is mightily affected with this passage of holy Scripture,
"The effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man
availeth much." [James v. 16]
This
makes him practise all the arts of holy living, and aspire
after every instance of piety and righteousness, that his
prayers for his flock may have their full force, and avail
much with God.
For this
reason, he has sold a small estate that he had, and has
erected a charitable retirement for ancient poor people,
to live in prayer and piety, that his prayers, being
assisted by such good works, may pierce the clouds, and
bring down blessings upon those souls committed to his
care.
Ouranius
reads how God Himself said unto Abimelech, concerning
Abraham: "He is a prophet; he shall pray for thee,
and thou shalt live." [Gen. xx. 7]
And
again, how he said of Job, "And my servant Job shall
pray for you: for him will I accept." [Job xlii. 8]
From
these passages Ouranius justly concludes, that the prayers
of men eminent for holiness of life have an extraordinary
power with God; that He grants to other people such
pardons, reliefs, and blessings, through their prayers, as
would not be granted to men of less piety and perfection.
This makes Ouranius exceeding studious of Christian
perfection, searching after every grace and holy temper,
purifying his heart all manner of ways, fearful of every
error and defect in his life, lest his prayers for his
flock should be less availing with God, through his own
defects in holiness.
This
makes him careful of every temper of his heart, give alms
of all that he hath, watch, and fast, and mortify, and
live according to the strictest rules of temperance,
meekness, and humility, that he may be in some degree like
an Abraham or a Job in his parish, and make such prayers
for them, as God will hear and accept.
These are
the happy effects which a devout intercession hath
produced in the life of Ouranius.
And if
other people, in their several stations, were to imitate
this example, in such a manner as suited their particular
state of life, they would certainly find the same happy
effects from it.
If
masters, for instance, were thus to remember their
servants in their prayers, beseeching God to bless them,
and suiting their petitions to the particular wants and
necessities of their servants; letting no day pass without
a full performance of this part of devotion, the benefit
would be as great to themselves, as to their servants.
No way so
likely as this, to inspire them with a true sense of that
power which they have in their hands, to make them delight
in doing good, and becoming exemplary in all the parts of
a wise and good master.
The
presenting their servants so often before God, as equally
related to God, and entitled to the same expectations of
Heaven as themselves, would naturally incline them to
treat them not only with such humanity as became
fellow-creatures, but with such tenderness, care, and
generosity, as became fellow-heirs of the same glory. This
devotion would make masters inclined to everything that
was good towards their servants; be watchful of their
behaviour, and as ready to require of them an exact
observance of the duties of Christianity, as of the duties
of their service.
This
would teach them to consider their servants as God's
servants, to desire their perfection, to do nothing before
them that might corrupt their minds, to impose no business
upon them that should lessen their sense of religion, or
hinder them from their full share of devotion, both public
and private. This praying for them would make them as glad
to see their servants eminent in piety as themselves, and
contrive that they should have all the opportunities and
encouragements, both to know and perform all the duties of
the Christian life.
How
natural would it be for such a master to perform every
part of family devotion; to have constant prayers; to
excuse no one's absence from them; to have the Scriptures
and books of piety often read amongst his servants; to
take all opportunities of instructing them, of raising
their minds to God, and teaching them to do all their
business as a service to God and upon the hopes and
expectations of another life!
How
natural would it be for such an one to pity their weakness
and ignorance, to bear with the dulness of their
understandings, or the perverseness of their tempers, to
reprove them with tenderness, exhort them with affection,
as hoping that God would hear his prayers for them!
How
impossible would it be for a master, that thus interceded
with God for his servants, to use any unkind threatenings
towards them, to damn and curse them as dogs and
scoundrels, and treat them only as the dregs of the
creation!
This
devotion would give them another spirit, and make them
consider how to make proper returns of care, kindness, and
protection to those who had spent their strength and time
in service and attendance upon them.
Now if
gentlemen think it too low an employment for their state
and dignity, to exercise such a devotion as this for their
servants, let them consider how far they are from the
Spirit of Christ, who made Himself not only an
Intercessor, but a Sacrifice for the whole race of sinful
mankind.
Let them
consider how miserable their greatness would be, if the
Son of God should think it as much below Him to pray for
them, as they do to pray for their fellow-creatures.
Let them
consider how far they are from that spirit, which prays
for its most unjust enemies, if they have not kindness
enough to pray for those by whose labours and service they
live in ease themselves.
Again; if
parents should thus make themselves advocates and
intercessors with God for their children, constantly
applying to Heaven in behalf of them, nothing would be
more likely not only to bless their children, but also to
form and dispose their own minds to the performance of
everything that was excellent and praiseworthy.
I do not
suppose, but that the generality of parents remember their
children in their prayers, and call upon God to bless
them. But the thing here intended is not a general
remembrance of them, but a regular method of recommending
all their particular needs and necessities unto God; and
of praying for every such particular grace and virtue for
them, as their state and condition of life shall seem to
require.
The state
of parents is a holy state, in some degree like that of
the priesthood, and calls upon them to bless their
children with their prayers and sacrifices to God. Thus it
was that holy Job watched over and blessed his children,
he sanctified them, "he rose up early in the morning,
and offered burnt-offerings according to the number of
them all." [Job i. 5]
If
parents, therefore, considering themselves in this light,
should be daily calling upon God in a solemn, deliberate
manner, altering and extending their intercessions, as the
state and growth of their children required, such devotion
would have a mighty influence upon the rest of their
lives; it would make them very circumspect in the
government of themselves; prudent and careful of
everything they said or did, lest their example should
hinder that which they so constantly desired in their
prayers.
If a
father were daily making particular prayers to God, that
He would please to inspire his children with true piety,
great humility, and strict temperance, what could be more
likely to make the father himself become exemplary in
these virtues? How naturally would he grow ashamed of
wanting such virtues, as he thought necessary for his
children! So that his prayers for their piety would be a
certain means of exalting his own to its greatest height.
If a
father thus considered himself as an intercessor with God
for his children, to bless them with his prayers, what
more likely means to make him aspire after every degree of
holiness, that he might thereby be fitter to obtain
blessings from Heaven for them? How would such thoughts
make him avoid everything that was sinful and displeasing
to God, lest when he prayed for his children, God should
reject his prayers!
How
tenderly, how religiously would such a father converse
with his children, whom he considered as his little
spiritual flock, whose virtues he was to form by his
example, encourage by his authority, nourish by his
counsel, and prosper by his prayers to God for them.
How
fearful would he be of all greedy and unjust ways of
raising their fortune, of bringing them up in pride and
indulgence, or of making them too fond of the world, lest
he should thereby render them incapable of those graces
which he was so often beseeching God to grant them.
These
being the plain, natural, happy effects of this
intercession, all parents, I hope, who have the real
welfare of their children at heart, who desire to be their
true friends and benefactors, and to live amongst them, in
the spirit of wisdom and piety, will not neglect so great
a means, both of raising their own virtue, and doing an
eternal good to those, who are so near and dear to them by
the strongest ties of nature.
Lastly,
If all people, when they feel the first approaches of
resentment, envy, or contempt, towards others; or if in
all little disagreements and misunderstandings whatever,
they should, instead of indulging their minds with little
low reflections, have recourse, at such times, to a more
particular and extraordinary intercession with God, for
such persons as had raised their envy, resentment, or
discontent; this would be a certain way to prevent the
growth of all uncharitable tempers.
If you
were also to form your prayer or intercession at that
time, to the greatest degree of contrariety to that temper
which you were then in, it would be an excellent means of
raising your heart to the greatest state of perfection.
As for
instance, when at any time you find in your heart motions
of envy towards any person, whether on account of his
riches, power, reputation, learning, or advancement, if
you should immediately betake yourself at that time to
your prayers, and pray to God to bless. and prosper him in
that very thing which raised your envy; if you should
express and repeat your petitions in the strongest terms,
beseeching God to grant him all the happiness from the
enjoyment of it, that can possibly be received; you would
soon find it to be the best antidote in the world, to
expel the venom of that poisonous passion.
This
would be such a triumph over yourself, would so humble and
reduce your heart into obedience and order, that the devil
would even be afraid of tempting you again in the same
manner, when he saw the temptation turned into so great a
means of amending and reforming the state of your heart.
Again; if
in any little difference, or misunderstandings that you
happened to have at any time, with a relation, a neighbour,
or any one else, you should then pray for them in a more
extraordinary manner than you ever did before; beseeching
God to give them every grace, and blessing, and happiness,
you can think of; you would have taken the speediest
method that can be, of reconciling all differences, and
clearing up all misunderstandings. You would then think
nothing too great to be forgiven; stay for no
condescensions, need no mediation of a third person, but
be glad to testify your love and good-will to him who had
so high a place in your secret prayers.
This
would be the mighty power of such Christian devotion: it
would remove all peevish passions, soften your heart into
the most tender condescensions, and be the best arbitrator
of all differences that happened betwixt you and any of
your acquaintance.
The
greatest resentments amongst friends and neighbours, most
often arise from poor punctilios and little mistakes in
conduct. A certain sign that their friendship is merely
human, not founded upon religious considerations, or
supported by such a course of mutual prayer for one
another as the first Christians used.
For such
devotion must necessarily either destroy such tempers, or
be itself destroyed by them: you cannot possibly have any
ill temper, or show any unkind behaviour to a man, for
whose welfare you are so much concerned, as to be his
advocate with God in private.
Hence we
may also learn the odious nature and exceeding guilt of
all spite, hatred, contempt, and angry passions; they are
not to be considered as defects in good nature, and
sweetness of temper, not as failings in civility of
manners, or good breeding, but as such base tempers as are
entirely inconsistent with the charity of intercession.
You think
it a small matter to be peevish or illnatured to such or
such a man; but you should consider whether it be a small
matter to do that, which you could not do if you had but
so much charity as to be able to recommend him to God in
your prayers.
You think
it a small matter to ridicule one man, and despise
another; but you should consider whether it be a small
matter to want that charity toward these people, which
Christians are not allowed to want toward their most
inveterate enemies.
For be
but as charitable to these men, do but bless and pray for
them, as you are obliged to bless and pray for your
enemies, and then you will find that you have charity
enough, to make it impossible for you to treat them with
any degree of scorn or contempt.
For you
cannot possibly despise and ridicule that man, whom your
private prayers recommend to the love and favour of God.
When you
despise and ridicule a man, it is with no other end but to
make him ridiculous and contemptible in the eyes of other
men, and in order to prevent their esteem of him. How,
therefore, can it be possible for you sincerely to beseech
God to bless that man with the honour of His love and
favour, whom you desire men to treat as worthy of their
contempt?
Could
you, out of love to a neighbour, desire your Prince to
honour him with every mark of his esteem and favour, and
yet, at the same time, expose him to the scorn and
derision of your own servants?
Yet this
is as possible as to expose that man to the scorn and
contempt of your fellow-creatures whom you recommend to
the favour of God in your secret prayers.
From
these considerations we may plainly discover the
reasonableness and justice of this doctrine of the Gospel,
"Whosoever shall say to his brother, Raca, shall be
in danger of the council; but whosoever shall say, Thou
fool, shall be in danger of hell-fire." [Matt. v. 22]
We are
not, I suppose, to believe that every hasty word, or
unreasonable expression that slips from us by chance or
surprise, and is contrary to our intention and tempers, is
the great sin here signified.
But he
that says "Raca," or "Thou fool," must
chiefly mean him that allows himself in deliberate,
designed acts of scorn and contempt towards his brother,
and in that temper[43] speak to him, and of him, in
reproachful language.
Now since
it appears that these tempers are at the bottom the most
rank uncharitableness; since no one can be guilty of them,
but because he has not charity enough to pray to God for
his brother; it cannot be thought hard or rigorous
justice, that such tempers should endanger the salvation
of Christians. For who would think it hard, that a
Christian cannot obtain the favour of God for himself,
unless he reverence and esteem his brother Christian, as
one that bears the image of God, as one for whom Christ
died, as a member of Christ's body, as a member of that
holy society on earth, which is in union with that
triumphant Church in Heaven?
Yet all
these considerations must be forgot, all these glorious
privileges disregarded, before a man can treat him that
has them, as an object of scorn and contempt.
So that
to scorn, or despise a brother, or, as our blessed Lord
says, to call him Raca or fool, must be looked upon as
amongst the most odious, unjust, and guilty tempers, that
can be supported in the heart of a Christian, and justly
excluding him from all his hopes in the salvation of Jesus
Christ.
For to
despise one for whom Christ died, is to be as contrary to
Christ, as he that despises anything that Christ has said
or done.
If a
Christian that had lived with the holy Virgin Mary,
should, after the death of our Lord, have taken any
occasion to treat her with contempt, you would certainly
say, that he had lost his piety towards our Blessed Lord.
For a true reverence for Christ must have forced him to
treat her with respect who was so nearly related to Him.
I dare
appeal to any man's mind, whether it does not tell him,
that this relation of the Virgin Mary to our Blessed Lord,
must have obliged all those that lived and conversed with
her, to treat her with great respect and esteem. Might not
a man have justly dreaded the vengeance of God upon him,
for any scorn or contempt that he had shown to her?
Now if
this be plain and obvious reasoning, if a contempt offered
to the Virgin Mary must have been interpreted a contempt
of Christ, because of her near relation to Him, then let
the same reasoning show you the great impiety of despising
any brother.
You
cannot despise a brother, without despising him that
stands in a high relation to God, to His Son Jesus Christ,
and to the Holy Trinity.
You would
certainly think it a mighty impiety to treat a writing
with great contempt that had been written by the finger of
God; and can you think it a less impiety to contemn and
vilify a brother, who is not only the workmanship but the
image of God?
You would
justly think it great profaneness, to contemn and trample
upon an altar, because it was appropriated to holy uses,
and had had the body of Christ so often placed upon it;
and can you suppose it to be less profaneness to scorn and
trample upon a brother, who so belongs to God, that his
very body is to be considered as the temple of the Holy
Ghost? [1 Cor. vi. 19]
Had you
despised and ill-treated the Virgin Mary, you had been
chargeable with the impiety of despising her of whom
Christ was born. And if you scorn and despise a brother,
you are chargeable with the impiety of despising him for
whom Christ laid down His life.
And now,
if this scornful temper is founded upon a disregard of all
these relations which every Christian bears to God, and
Christ, and the Holy Trinity, can you wonder, or think it
hard, that a Christian who thus allows himself to despise
a brother, should be in danger of hell-fire?
Secondly,
It must here be observed, that though in these words,
"Whosoever shall say, Thou fool," etc., the
great sin there condemned is an allowed temper of
despising a brother; yet we are also to believe, that all
hasty expressions, and words of contempt, though spoken by
surprise or accident, are by this text condemned as great
sins, and notorious breaches of Christian charity.
They
proceed from great want of Christian love and meekness,
and call for great repentance. They are only little sins,
when compared with habits and settled tempers of treating
a brother despitefully, and fall as directly under the
condemnation of this text as the grossest habits of
uncharitableness.
And the
reason why we are always to apprehend great guilt, and
call ourselves to a strict repentance for these hasty
expressions of anger and contempt, is this; because they
seldom are what they seem to be, that is, mere starts of
temper that were occasioned purely by surprise or
accident, but are much more our own proper acts than we
generally imagine.
A man
says a great many bitter things; he presently forgives
himself, because he supposes it was only the suddenness of
the occasion, or something accidental that carried him so
far beyond himself.
But he
should consider, that perhaps the accident, or surprise,
was not the occasion of his angry expressions but might
only be the occasion of his angry temper showing itself.
Now as
this is, generally speaking, the case, as all haughty,
angry language generally proceeds from some secret habits
of pride in the heart; so people that are subject to it,
though only now and then as accidents happen, have great
reason to repent of more than their present behaviour, to
charge themselves with greater guilt than accidental
passion, and to bring themselves to such penance and
mortification, as is proper to destroy habits of a haughty
spirit.
And this
may be the reason why the text looks no farther than the
outward language; why it only says Whosoever shall say,
Thou fool; because few can proceed so far as to the
accidental use of haughty, disdainful language, but they
whose hearts are more or less possessed with habits and
settled tempers of pride and haughtiness.
But to
return: intercession is not only the best arbitrator of
all differences, the best promoter of true friendship, the
best cure and preservative against all unkind tempers, all
angry and haughty passions, but is also of great use to
discover to us the true state of our own hearts.
There are
many tempers which we think lawful and innocent, which we
never suspect of any harm; which, if they were to be tried
by this devotion, would soon show us how we have deceived
ourselves.
Susurrus
is a pious, temperate, good man, remarkable for abundance
of excellent qualities. No one more constant at the
service of the Church, or whose heart is more affected
with it. His charity is so great, that he almost starves
himself, to be able to give greater alms to the poor. Yet
Susurrus had a prodigious failing along with these great
virtues.
He had a
mighty inclination to hear and discover all the defects
and infirmities of all about him. You were welcome to tell
him anything of anybody, provided that you did not do it
in the style of an enemy. He never disliked an
evil-speaker, but when his language was rough and
passionate. If you would but whisper anything gently,
though it were ever so bad in itself, Susurrus was ready
to receive it.
When he
visits, you generally hear him relating how sorry he is
for the defects and failings of such a neighbour. He is
always letting you know how tender he is of the reputation
of his neighbour; how loth to say that which he is forced
to say; and how gladly he would conceal it, if it could be
concealed.
Susurrus
had such a tender, compassionate manner of relating things
the most prejudicial to his neighbour, that he even
seemed, both to himself and others, to be exercising a
Christian charity, at the same time that he was indulging
a whispering, evil-speaking temper.
Susurrus
once whispered to a particular friend in great secrecy,
something too bad to be spoken of publicly. He ended with
saying, how glad he was that it had not yet taken wind,
and that he had some hopes it might not be true, though
the suspicions were very strong. His friend made him this
reply:
You say,
Susurrus, that you are glad it has not yet taken wind: and
that you may have some hopes it may not prove true. Go
home, therefore, to your closet, and pray to God for this
man, in such a manner, and with such earnestness, as you
would pray for yourself on the like occasion.
Beseech
God to interpose in his favour, to save him from false
accusers, and bring all those to shame who, by
uncharitable whispers and secret stories, wound him, like
those that stab in the dark. And when you have made this
prayer, then you may, if you please, go tell the same
secret to some other friend, that you have told to me.
Susurrus
was exceedingly affected with this rebuke, and felt the
force of it upon his conscience in as lively a manner, as
if he had seen the books opened at the day of judgment.
All other
arguments might have been resisted; but it was impossible
for Susurrus either to reject, or to follow this advice,
without being equally self-condemned in the highest
degree.
From that
time to this, he has constantly used himself to this
method of intercession; and his heart is so entirely
changed by it, that he can now no more privately whisper
anything to the prejudice of another than he can openly
pray to God to do people hurt.
Whisperings
and evil-speakings now hurt his ears like oaths and
curses: and he has appointed one day in the week to be a
day of penance as long as he lives, to humble himself
before God, in the sorrowful confession of his former
guilt.
It may
well be wondered, how a man of so much piety as Susurrus
could be so long deceived in himself, as to live in such a
state of scandal and evil-speaking, without suspecting
himself to be guilty of it. But it was the tenderness and
seeming compassion with which he heard and related
everything that deceived both himself and others.
This was
a falseness of heart, which was only to be fully
discovered by the true charity of intercession.
And if
people of virtue, who think as little harm of themselves
as Susurrus did, were often to try their spirit by such an
intercession, they would often find themselves to be such
as they least of all suspected.
I have
laid before you the many and great advantages of
intercession. You have seen what a Divine friendship it
must needs beget amongst Christians; how dear it would
render all relations and neighbours to one another; how it
tends to make clergymen, masters, and parents, exemplary
and perfect in all the duties of their station; how
certainly it destroys all envy, spite, and ill-natured
passions; how speedily it reconciles all differences; and
with what a piercing light it discovers to a man the true
state of his heart.
These
considerations will, I hope, persuade you to make such
intercession as is proper for your state, the constant,
chief matter of your devotion, at this hour of prayer.
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